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Am I wrong to throw in the towel for the men in a country that I love so much? I pose this question after living in Croatia for almost a year now. I am one and a half months shy of my first anniversary and I am now as perplexed as other women are around here about the men. Let me explain this statement for a moment, Woman wanting sex in Zadar first let me state that some of the men here are nice, friendly, and attractive. Of course this is not all men, as I have seen a few relationships of mixed culture and race, but this is definitely not the norm in Croatia.
I came in from Split and traveled Woman wanting sex in Zadar Zadar by bus, and not once saw any other color. It took me a few weeks in Zadar to finally see another black female. Of course when the summer came around, being the Adriatic coast and a popular vacation destination, an influx of different races did appear. But, I say this to paint a picture of my initial hesitancies regarding being accepted.
Of course racism exists everywhere, but the looks coming from both men women and children were of a curious nature for the most part. I even asked the air bnb host that I was renting from if I would experience any problems of the dating kind here. Her answer was no. She was also of the fuller persuasion and said that guys would jump at the chance to date me if I was skinnier. She even said that for most girls they have to take the first step in order for something to get going. During my 5 months in Zadar I met a few guys who seemed interested then backed off.
Most men I met always asked if I liked Croatian guys, and my answer was always yes. They are definitely an attractive group of men. But attraction only goes so far when one half freezes up on the regular.
I honestly had no issues with my weight in the U. S, albeit it may seem weird to a foreigner who see the stereotypes on television of all the plastic surgery going on. I tried to in my best way to see his attitude through his own culture, especially living on the coast where it is expected to have a bikini ready body. But this would be the beginning of the male psyche of the Croatian men coming forth to paint a picture for me. I say male because Woman wanting sex in Zadar have not found the same barrier with women here.
In fact I have been approached on several occasions which has never happened in the U. The first was in Zadar when a woman leaned over and licked me on the chest while I was dancing and having a good time. The second was at another club in Zagreb where a girl kept staring at me then boldly came over and kissed me on the cheek. Anyhoot, I cut my losses and moved to Zagreb.
Not in pursuit of love by any means, but for a better opportunity to travel with my pets. I must admit that in the back of my mind I did expect to meet Woman wanting sex in Zadar available men with whom I could hang out with on a deeper level, if not only for good conversation, or something more.
I was told that the people in Zadar were different from Zagreb, like a whole other world different. Except for the men of course. Even though Zagreb is a lot Woman wanting sex in Zadar than Zadar with about 1 million people, it was a lot harder to meet someone. Women at first but then it blossomed to men. I became more comfortable with the city and started going to events and out to bars.
I met a lady from Egypt who said she met her Croatian husband on okcupid and said this was the best place to meet decent men. She had been in the online dating scene for over 7 years and this was the best website in her opinion. Mind you this was not in any way my cup of tea. I had only been on a dating website once before for about two weeks because of Woman wanting sex in Zadar free trial Valentines Day special, and that is where I met my then future husband and now ex.
That was in and so I thought if it worked then why not try it again. The men I met were also of the same mindset. It all became Woman wanting sex in Zadar much when I am a very confident female who believes a man who is Woman wanting sex in Zadar my time should already know my worth.
I have heard this from many sources even including my pet supply friend who begged me not to even try to date a Croatian guy as she was married to one being Croatian herself. I thought this was a bit harsh but now Slut in Tolten am seeing the wisdom in her words. Before I give my opinion on the attitude of most men here let me state that I have met some wonderful guys. They are open, inviting, fun to talk to and be around.
It is not the opinion of most older men as I have been approached by more men ages 60 and over than any other. They have Woman wanting sex in Zadar been the ones to voice the confused nature of the men in the younger generations as being stuck in a time warp and not wanting responsibility.
Some have said Woman wanting sex in Zadar is because of the recent home land war which may have caused PTSD Woman wanting sex in Zadar most of the men and caused them not to want to build a family. That is why they pursue a girl then get cold or just blow them off. Although of course there are no good men anywhere. These men just really are confused it seems. Let me take for example one guy I did meet on okcupid before I deleted my account in frustration.
He seemed like he had his head on straight but he would only contact me every two weeks. One would think that he was maybe married or had a girlfriend, but guys I met said that this was normal and to give him time.
Eventually he sent me a message stating that he was sorry he hurt me Woman wanting sex in Zadar that I would find a decent man. I gave him an out and asked did he find someone else and he said yes. We went to get coffee and before then he kept saying he was nervous and confused. We go to get coffee and he says he has two sons ages 18 and 14 and a deceased wife.
This is around New Years and after our meeting he texts me talking about how he wants sex from a black woman and also a wife. Taking me too fast I proclaim but I reassure him that I like him but no sex talk AND definitely no wife talk after just meeting. Of course he failed to contact me anymore.
This scenario leads me to another one where I have been told of how men here view black women. Apparently they have been propagandaed to think that black women just want sex. First off this is a big turnoff. I try to chalk this up as not having enough experience around a black female, although my belief is that you treat them as you would any woman you liked. I have had conversations with some men here who think there is nothing wrong with that to express deep feelings for a woman.
And I try to convey that it could come off as disgusting because what makes you think the black woman wants to envision herself having sex with you even if you are thinking that way. I always assume that if a man approaches me he clearly finds me sexually attractive.
I also had a guy from Woman wanting sex in Zadar overrationalize this until he just called off the meeting we had to have coffee. We may click and Woman wanting sex in Zadar friends but then he brought up he would be uncomfortable, not knowing what others would think of him being out with Online dating services elk city idaho black girl.
I am an attractive woman and if anything would only complement you out in public. I think the last straw of my experience with Croatian guys came a few weeks ago when I went out to go to the movies. This guy approached me and he was adamant about going out for coffee. I have learned that this is a surefire way to determine if a guy likes you. Anyway, I declined because I had somewhere to go. But he was very persistent. It is more of a culture thing because women want to seem hard to get so if you say no they press harder because they know the woman may not want to seem easy.
I have heard this from an older woman and then when I asked what do you do if you really are not interested and she Woman wanting sex in Zadar to lie.
Say that you are married, which I think is a bit outlandish but it is what it is. Back to the story though, so he follows me from bus to tram. Of course I was not anywhere near head over heels or fawning over him but I did enjoy his company. Ask me if I ever saw him again after such a seemingly great night.
These situations may not be much to deter me if I was still in the U. S as there are plenty of open minded men out there. But in Croatia this is as good as it gets. For me it is not Woman wanting sex in Zadar having to Woman wanting sex in Zadar someone up to be seen with you because of how they think others will react.
I think my issue here is a mixture of my extra weight and Woman wanting sex in Zadar color, although how much of each is a mystery. I say this because especially in Zagreb there are a lot of women of different sizes, and a lot who are bigger than me. So that by itself is not the issue. I think it topples with my skin color, although there are Woman wanting sex in Zadar Croatians who have a darker pigment too. They are probably confused as to why they think what they do.
I have had to bear questions Woman wanting sex in Zadar an 11 year old male kid who asked me just as openly what I liked about my fat after he noticed I was quite comfortable and confident with my weight. Mind you he is not skinny himself, but for a male to have fat is clearly acceptable.
It is like in their mind, even at a young Woman wanting sex in Zadar, losing weight will solve the problem of their confusion. Like I said even their own women, whether skinny or plump, say they are a bit off. I have also been schooled by an older heavy set Croatian guy to not take offence if a woman from his culture talks about my weight.
He says that all Americans are too sensitive. He actually posed this notion after being hurt by his own male friends talking about his Woman wanting sex in Zadar, but then he projected the situation upon me and set it in the minds of women of his culture.
I had to correct him and tell him that the women have no problem with my weight, at least the ones that I have met who have complimented me or tried to seduce me lol.
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